Meditation for Coronavirus Related Anxiety

Meditation for Coronavirus Related Anxiety

youtu.be/t7lPmVzk1HU As a therapist, I am definitely feeling/hearing the collective disorientation and concern as the world as we know it shifts on a minute to minute basis. I start every one of my individual therapy sessions with guided imagery/guided meditation and my clients this past week have been appreciating this particular brief meditation as it … Continue reading

Homecoming

Homecoming

This is one of the most beautiful times of the year no doubt but for many of us it can also a hectic time of incredible stress, toxic comparisons, feelings of inadequacy and deep loneliness. Listen to my conversation with Jon Dewaal host of the Life in Transitions podcast as we explore a path to … Continue reading

Is it ‘self-care’ or is it ‘selfish’ ?

Is it ‘self-care’ or is it ‘selfish’ ?

  Earlier this year I found myself in the middle of a delicious unexpected “me-time” opportunity, I was in my office when I had a couple of last minute client cancellations in a row, in the back of my mind I had remembered that just a couple of blocks away a woman was giving an … Continue reading

Feeling Resentment?

Feeling Resentment?

We all have had the experience of hanging on to resentment. It is a normal part of relationships but it is also a toxic dynamic that can cause unnecessary suffering. To be fully free in our personal relationships we must have the courage to move out of the victim stance and let go of resentment. … Continue reading

Can’t Stop Eating? Get (mind)Full

Can’t Stop Eating? Get (mind)Full

Are you mystified with your inability to listen to your body and stop eating when you’ve had enough? For more than seven years in both my personal life and in my psychotherapy practice I have been studying the reasons why we reach for food when we are not hungry. The best answer I have found is … Continue reading

Christmas Cookies – 3 Guidelines to Guiltless Indulgence

Christmas Cookies – 3 Guidelines to Guiltless Indulgence

Truly my favorite time of year…I love the lights, the music, the evergreen garland, the parties and, let us not forget, the array of beautifully decorated cookies that only emerge for this tiny window in our calendar year. I couldn’t always easily include cookies in my list of holiday loves. For many years it was a complicated relationship. … Continue reading

A Vote for Love

A Vote for Love

Today many hearts are broken, many hearts are grieving, many hearts are fearful, many hearts are celebrating, many hearts are relieved, many hearts are wrapped in hope. Today, we interpret our world from many different places but what unifies us is that at the center of ALL hearts there is a yearning for peace. We … Continue reading

Unpack the Shame from your Suitcase

Unpack the Shame from your Suitcase

  It’s summertime and for most of us that means long-awaited vacations, time on the beach, family reunions, summer gatherings etc. What this also means is that there are millions of people out there who are letting the joy of their events be eclipsed by the shame they feel about their body heading in to … Continue reading

Your Body: A Tumultuous Love Affair

Your Body: A Tumultuous Love Affair

You look in the mirror; you hate it. You give birth to your baby; you love it. You try on your bathing suit; you hate it. You finally feel better after a nasty flu; you love it. Your pants are too tight; you hate it. You feel proud of your workout; you love it. Up … Continue reading

A New New Years Tradition

A New New Years Tradition

I don’t remember when my former New Years tradition began but I am guessing it lasted for at least 20 years. Gearing up to the big day I would get intoxicated with excitement about my resolve to be perfect in my eating and exercise habits. I would completely convince myself that this was THE YEAR, … Continue reading